Why Study the Humanities?

Having learned more about the myths and stories of Western civilization, I am understanding more how study of the humanities (art, history, and literature) can be used to help people better understand and communicate with one another. It is obvious that the study of humanities is not just a college course, but it is an ongoing process and practice in life.
The humanities can first be used to understand the past which has created the present. The culture which we have was shaped by the past. Facts, findings, and literature of even thousands of years ago have influenced our world today. Knowing this past can allow people to understand our present; knowing how we came to this present helps us to communicate about it and the future.
The study of the humanities can also be used to realize differing interpretations of life and history. Studying facts of the past helps to understand literature of the past. Art reflects the cultures of the past, and shows how we achieved what we have today. For example, the Song of Roland was very biased about the Saracens (Muslims). If one only studied literature, they would have a totally skewed interpretation of who the Muslims were. By studying history though, we know that the battle in this literature wasn't even against Muslims. Also by studying history and religion we can see how Islam developed and what it really is. This is just one example of how the comprehensive study of the humanities can be used to understand the world, and to communicate fairly and intelligently with others in the world.
The humanities are not just part of the college's curriculum. The study of the humanities teaches one how to study and look at how the past developed and how it has impacted today's world. The humanities allows people of different cultures to communicate and understand their sometimes common pasts but present differences. The humanities shows how different disciplines affect and complement one another. Finally, the study of the humanities shows that this study is ongoing and continual, constantly evolving and shaping.

Snappy Answers to Stupid Questions for Introverts

As a kid, I was an avid reader of MAD magazine, which had a regular feature called Al Jaffee's Snappy Answers to Stupid Questions. (You can still find used copies of the books of the same name.)
The snappy answers were the responses you wished you could think of right away instead of two hours later, the clever retorts to dopey and/or clueless questions that would wither the questioner and provide certain smug (if unkind) satisfaction.
This feature came to mind as I was writing the post "How to Piss Off an Introvert" and so I decided to revisit the topic. I can't hope to be funny as the great Al Jaffee, who is the longest-running contributor to MAD. But I thought I'd take a shot at snappy answers some of the questions/comments that drive introverts bonkers.


Why are you so quiet?

• I'm listening to the voices in my head.
• Somebody has to be. (Thanks to reader sb22)
• I'm studying to be a mime.

Smile!

• Why?
• I can't. Tragic Botox incident. 
• I will when you go away.

Why are you always so serious?

• I'm only serious on the outside. I'm partying on the inside. 
• Always? Have you been stalking me?
• Because the universe is expanding, and if it's expanding, someday it will break apart and that would be the end of everything! (Thanks Alvy Singer.)

Are you mad?

• No, just eccentric.
• Why, what have you done?
• Not yet.

Do you hate people?

• Not all people.
• Only people who ask me that question.
• No, they're delicious with a nice Chianti. (Thanks Hannibal Lecter.)

Are you a snob?

• No, I'm a slob. That must have been a typo.
• Of course not. I'm here, aren't I?
• No, I pride myself on my low standards.

You look bored.

• Don't be so hard on yourself.
• This is my rapt face.
• Only when you talk.

You don't know how to have fun.

• Sure I do. Tell me when it starts.
• I didn't know "fun" was a synonym for "loud."
• You're right, I'm outta here.

Got some of your own? I'd love to hear them. Keep ‘em clean and not too mean, please. Let's make Al Jaffee proud.

How to Know if a Guy Likes You

There's no way to know for sure if a guy likes you, unless you ask him (and even then he could get shy and say no!); here are some tips to help you determine if he likes you.

1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he rarely turns his back to you, often leans towards you, and also looks at you a lot. If he slouches his shoulders when near you, he's romantic and cares about what you have to say. If he points his shoulders and pelvis towards you while sitting, he is definitely feeling something for you.
   
   
2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he may either look away quickly if he is shy, or he'll try to catch your eye and hold it or make faces. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there. When he's around you and he says/does something funny and everyone around laughs, his eyes will flicker towards you for a second to see if you laughed, too.
   
   
   • His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes. If you're around him for a long time, it could be easier to pick up on gradually.
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   Listen to what he's saying. If he likes you, and he's nervous, he'll probably start talking about himself. Many times, guys feel the need to prove themselves- especially if you talk about another guy in his company.
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   Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, and won't move his leg if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you, unless he's a bit of a "playboy" who flirts with a lot of girls. See if he uses any of the tricks in How to Touch a Girl, and see if he uses them more with you than with anyone else.
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   Watch his actions around other girls and see if he treats you differently. Some guys flirt with other girls to get your attention. It gives them a chance to see your reaction, and helps them know if you really do like them or not. You can tell that they are trying to make you jealous if they find little times when they're flirting with the other girl to look at you. His eyes will flick over and look at you. Another sign is that when you leave, he stops flirting with the other girl. That will be a harder one to pick up on, but you can have a friend to look out for you or something like that. You have to be sneaky sometimes to find out if a guy likes you.
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   Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest bands or artists for you to listen to. Another example, if you introduce him to a TV show that he didn't really know about and that becomes his new favorite thing, thats a sign that he likes you.
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   Check for signs of nervousness. Signs of nervous laughter, sweaty palms, deep breaths, fidgeting, or possibly even looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he likes.
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   Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don't?
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   Don't ignore him If he shows genuine interest in you, (i.e. smiles at you a lot in the hallway, work, etc., at least go out for a walk.)
10. 10
    Look to see if he imitates you. If he mimics you, he probably likes you, such as if you move to another table, he'll go with you.
11. 11
    Pay attention to teasing. If a guy teases you a lot, it might mean he likes you, but if he doesn't tease any other girl, he probably does like you.
12. 12
    If he hits you or playfully punches you on your arm, this may mean he likes you. A guy may hit you but it's just flirting he probably just wants to see your smile You may find it annoying if you're not into him, but otherwise if you hit back then that's a way then he can know that you like him back!
13. 13
    Acknowledge any compliments that come your way. If you do your hair or makeup differently one day, and the guy notices, that's a very good sign that he likes you. Most guys won't notice, and if they do, they won't say anything unless they're into you. Anything like, "You look nice today," "I like that shirt," or even "Did you do your hair differently today? It looks nice," are all indicators that he could be interested in you. NOTE: If he's a good friend of yours, these won't necessarily be indicators of romantic interest. It could just be him being a good friend. Not all guys are this straightforward about compliments, so don't be worried if he doesn't compliment you.
14. 14
    Watch for him noticing 'masculine things' on you. For example, some of your dad's aftershave rubbed off on you when you hugged him. Your crush may say 'is that aftershave on you?' This indicates he thinks it is from another guy (and not your dad!)
15. 15
    If he talks to you on a Social Networking site. If he chats with you often he may like you. He could also just be talkative and friendly so don't assume he's into you for chatting. He may put 'x' on the end of everything he says to you. That might not necessarily mean he likes you. It could just mean that you are good friends. If he says, "I know something you don't know," then this could mean that he likes you and wants you to be guessing. He might also want you to know and wants to see if you feel the same way. Or it could just mean he knows something you don't know, e.g. a new colour, the fact that he has a new friend, etc.
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    Watch to see if he is following you in a sneaky way. For example, if you're on table 1, talking to your friends, watch to see if he is close nearby. So when the conversation end, and you go to say, table 7, see if he follows you, but of course does not follow you to table 7 unless he is good friends with the people at table 7 and wants to talk to them coincidentally. Check to see if he stands at a different place when you are at table 1 and 7 to make sure he is following you.

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Tips

• If you like him and you are confident, ask him out.
• If you think a guy likes you and you sort of like him just ask him out and you'll be surprised.
• The Clock Test: To see if a guy has been checking you out, abruptly look at the clock, then look at him really fast. If he followed your eyes to the clock, he was staring at you and was startled by your sudden movement that following your eyes is a reflex to them.
• If he seems comfortable talking to you about other girls, he probably does not like you in that way. Either that, or he is trying to make you jealous, which might mean that he likes you but doesn't reflect too well on his character. Or he could be trying to see if you like him.
• If his ex hates you, there might be a reason.
• If you have a different lunch schedule than him, try "visiting" your friends in that period and pass by him so he knows you are there. If he comes by to sit with you, or "surprises" you by sneaking up on you, talk with him. Then, later, ask your friends if he normally comes over to sit. If he doesn’t, he most likely likes you and wanted an excuse to be near you.
• The Pencil Test: If you have a lead pencil, "accidentally" break it. If you ask him to sharpen it for you, and he says "Yes", he could be into you. If he says "No", no hard feelings, he could be shy.
• Here's a way to ask him if he likes you without really asking! You can tell a friend to go up to him, look him up and down, and say, 'You and (insert your name) should go out.' If he looks at your friend like he's thinking or nods at her/him, he may be considering the offer. But if he shrugs, or just turns away, don't think he doesn't like you. He may not be comfortable telling your friend if he likes you or not.
• You return the favor, too! If he winks at you, let him know you know what that means by smiling, laughing, etc.#
• If you notice him walking behind you in the hallway, continue to walk in front of him and pretend to not know he's there. If he likes you, he may try to catch up to you and make it seem like a casual "Hello."
• Notice how he acts around his friends. Now, do he act the same with you around?
• awkward look you may be in a room without a clock at some time in your life. if you think he is looking at you ,or you just want to make sure, look at him real quick-like and if he seems to stare at you for a moment longer and then acts like he's staring at everyone for a moment around you, you may have a "Admirer"
• Guys that are really smart (not nerds) might have a lower self image and automatically think you don't like them even when you are flirting a lot with them try to ask them to help you with something like schoolwork or work to get them into their playing field then compliment them on their smarts. This will make them feel better about themselves and begin to like you more and may give them the courage to ask you out.
• Just ask him out! He might be waiting for you to make the move or to ask him out. This happens a lot with shy guys. If he rejects, don't take it personally. He's not worth your time.
• Does he talk about you to his friends? there is no harm asking his friends if he does, if he does talk about you often this can only be a good thing. When asking his friends try not to make it obvious that you are interested that way they won't suspect anything.
• Watch where he sits in class. If he's sitting in your seat when you come back from break or a weekend, then he may like you. Just politely ask him to move. I've noticed that my crush wants to sit near me in the one and only class we have together. It may be a hint that he likes you if he is around you a lot.

Warnings

• If you look at him a lot, he might look at you just to see if you're looking at him and not because he likes you.
• Remember that if you like someone you can sometimes misread their signals in the hope that they like you back. For instance, a guy who teases you in an affectionate way may act like that towards everybody and doesn't realize that he's making you swoon every time he pokes good-natured fun at you!
• Watch out for the subtle guys. If he asks you something that could potentially be a date but you're not really sure, make sure it's clear before you agree to it. It can be uncomfortable when one of you thinks you're on a date and one of you thinks you're not.
• The wrong kind of guy might say he likes you without meaning it; if this is the case, he probably wants to see how far you would go with him, for any of those activities (whatever they may be) themselves and for bragging rights among his friends.
• Don't ask your friends to ask him if he likes you. He might not be truthful and tell your friends that he doesn't like you. It doesn't work 99.999% of the time.
• He doesn't look in your eyes when talking to you. If he focuses more on your body, be careful, he may not like you for you. He could just be looking for a "good" time.
• This is from a guy: DO NOT ask a guy what he likes in a girl or get to be real close friends with him (by flirting etc.) just to eventually learn if he likes one of your friends. This guy might begin to like you and when you ask him it kind of turns him down automatically because he sees what you have been doing. This may lead him to hold a lower opinion for you and your friend so it was a loss for the both of you.
• Don't assume a guy likes you just because he talks to you. He may just be being friendly.

Five Things Girls Want to Know About Periods

 

 

 

How Do I Tell My Mom or Dad That I Got My First Period?

It's normal to feel a little shy about sharing this bit of news. In some families, talking about body stuff might seem like no big deal. With this kind of family, they might take you out to dinner to celebrate your womanhood! Other families may be more private, so a girl might not know exactly what to say or whom to tell. But this news needs to be shared, at least with one grown-up in the family. You might just pull the person aside and say it clearly, like this: "I got my first period today. Do you think you can help me get some supplies?" If brothers and sisters find out, they might razz you a bit. Just tell them that it means you're getting older.

How Does a Tampon Work?

Unlike pads, which catch blood after it comes out of the vagina, a tampon is inserted in the vagina. It's made of soft material with a string for easy removal. The opening to the vagina is between the urethra (where pee comes out) and the anus (where poop comes out). It may take a while to get the hang of using tampons. Inside each box, there's an instruction booklet that will tell you how to do it. If a tampon ever does feel "stuck," it's only temporary. It can't get lost inside you because there's no other way out except through the vagina. Relax and wait a few minutes; you should be able to get the tampon out.

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Can I Go Swimming During My Period?

Swimming during your period isn't a problem. However, you will want to use a tampon when swimming so you don't bleed on your swimsuit. Pads won't work. The tampon won't fall out if it is inserted correctly, so go ahead and make a splash! Tampons also can be helpful for girls who exercise or play sports during their periods. Although pads will work, they can be bulky and uncomfortable.

Everyone Says You Need to be Prepared for Your Period by Having Pads or Tampons. What Happens If I Don't Have Them?

If this happens, here are your options: Borrow from a friend, buy some from a restroom dispenser, visit the school nurse if you're at school, or call home so your mom or dad can bring you what you need. If you are desperate and trying to keep your clothes from staining, you can fold up some tissues or toilet paper and place them in your underwear. That won't work for long, so you'll need to get some pads or tampons quickly. If you are nervous about telling the school nurse, a teacher, or another adult about what you need, write it down on a piece of paper or use code words. You might say that "it's that time of the month" or that you need some "personal supplies." Even better, keep extras in your backpack, locker, or gym bag.

What If Blood Leaks Through My Undies and Pants?

Oh, no! There's blood on the back of your pants — what do you do? It happens to just about every girl at some point. Sometimes it happens in a place where you aren't at home, so you can't change right away. But if you are wearing a sweater or jacket, you can take it off and tie it around your waist. Then get a fresh tampon or pad so that it doesn't bleed through your pants more than it already has. Change as soon as you can. You'll need to rinse your underwear and pants with cold water as soon as possible. Sometimes, the stain comes out and sometimes it doesn't. To avoid this mishap, change your pads and tampons regularly, and keep extras in your backpack or locker. For extra protection on heavy days, some girls wear a pad with a tampon. As added insurance, wear dark-colored underwear and pants during your period.

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The Law of Karma

The Law of Karma
Learn to live according to spiritual the rules of eternal life and improve the quality of your life. Your mind, emotions, speech and actions are affected by this law.
Mankind sometimes gets struck by their "destiny". Some suffer from illness, accidents, from being beaten half death or death and they most if not all the time claim others of being guilty.
This of course is completely wrong. Mankind - made to the image of God - needs to learn to be fully responsible for all they do. The law of Karma explains why illness, accidents and disasters of any kind may occurs to some persons, and why others may enjoy a happy life, free, healthy and joyful.
Learn to properly apply this law for your personal benefit - it will be at the same time for the benefit of all. By properly applying all spiritual principles of God's Divine creation, your life will become instantly easier - provided you follow ALL rules exactly to the word.

How the law of karma works

Actually the law of karma is very simple and has been known for thousands of years. The law of Karma is known in Christian teachings, as well as in many other cultures. It says:
Whatever you do to others - will be done to you, in this or any future incarnation of your soul.
This law is so straightforward and logical, it sometimes is hard to believe, that some persons still think they may somehow get around it. If you knock your head against a wall, it is obvious - it may damage the wall and it may hurt your head. If you knock someone by physically fighting - you may cause harm, pain, injury to the person and the law of Karma requires you to experience the same pain. This is to have you learn to behave in a way that causes but pleasant experiences to others and yourself alike.
Whatever you do, you may attract persons around you, that have a same or similar Karma than you have. If you are of a physically fighting nature, you may attract such persons again and again. Until you start to become aware of your own behavior and start to be fed up with the result of your very own actions. Until you start to strive for a more peaceful environment. The only sure method of finding one is changing your very own behavior.
This law of karma applies for individuals as much as for families, groups, villages, cities, nations, cultures or even entire planets.

Where does this law apply ?

It applies for all you do toward any being including animals, plants, planets, beings of any nature beyond physical sphere, humans, including what some may consider "criminals" - remember: All are children of God - made out of his Holy Spirit, made to the image of God. This law is valid for

• all of your actions
• all of your words
• all of your thoughts
• all of your emotions

But my thought or emotions are my personal secrets and of no concern to others, you may say ...

Perfectly wrong. All is energy. All your thoughts and emotions, all your fantasy are energy and are permanently radiating like a radio station. They do permanently affect your environment and its behavior. Some may radiate thoughts and feelings of Love, thus raising the vibration of their environment and be of a healing nature to others. Others may cause a kind of mental or emotional pollution to others, like a car may be able to do, or the chemical and some other Industries may still do.

But at least most people are not directly affected or hurt by my thoughts and emotions, you may say ...

The power of mind or emotions is far above the physical power. It may consciously hurt your physical body when your dad or mom or anyone else is beating you for any reason. Some may think, that a few days after you have forgotten it, thus it may be of no harm and leave no traces. But be assured that even one single stroke you ever get, may leave traces in your emotional or causal body for decades or incarnations. It may take years of conscious healing efforts to heal a person who has ever got any physical punishment for any reason by anyone. There is never any justification for any kind of physical punishment for any reason.
But even worst is any kind of verbal, mental or emotional violence against any person or other being of any nature. The power of metaphysical energy in proportion to physical energy may best be compared to the difference between 1 meter compared to 1 m² (square meter). Two different dimensions.
The only medicine that could ever heal injuries done by violent words, thoughts and emotions is but Divine Love. The damage that often lasts for thousands of years may be so tremendous, that only God can heal all this wounds by his pure and omnipotent Divine Love.
Metaphysical energy has a power far beyond physical imaginations. Fortunately, God created some safety measures in his creation. Most very physical persons with a strong ego have a rather weak metaphysical radiation. Because violent vibrations are of higher density, thus the flow of such energy is limited. It may be compared to the difference of the flow of honey compared to the flow of water through the same pipeline-system. It is harder to continuously create a flow of thoughts and emotions of low vibrations than such made of Divine Love.
Violent thoughts and emotions may thus be primary of physical nature with a relatively weak metaphysical part of radiation. But nevertheless all is energy and even the most violent thoughts always are radiating across the environment. In the future people may become more and more metaphysical in their perception and all their thoughts and emotions as well. This will for one part cause an awareness of other peoples thoughts and emotions and at the same time may cause their own thoughts and emotions to become more powerful for communications with their environment.
Your thoughts and emotions - no matter how secret you may consider them - do affect all others around you. It affects all around you. It affects the behavior, the action and reaction toward you from your entire environment.
Your thoughts and emotions are part of your aura and may affect those dear to you, like your family and friends, even when you are thousands of kilometers apart of each others. Even family members having "died" a long time ago, may still be affected by such radiation of your aura.
So beware of all your thoughts and emotions as well as all your words and action, because they create a reaction in your environment toward you. Be prepared to receive the kind of energy you radiate from others. Be even prepared to receive physically what you radiated in your fantasy or mind. Because a thought of violence or punishment toward any other person may hurt them even more than any physical violence and may come back as a physical reaction toward you.

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Emotional injury that occurred in previous incarnation may be even more difficult to heal while being in a physical body than physical injuries. Medical doctors and healers need first to learn how to perceive and truly heal emotional injuries and blockages in the causal body caused by such past psycho-traumatic experiences in your life. However it is possible to heal any injury by the Divine power of God's Love and Bliss. This can be achieved directly by the person affected - for example by following spiritual traditions such like Kriya Yoga, Bhakti Yoga or any other suitable spiritual tradition or by asking for Divine assistance through a healer or even best directly from God.

 

Love and honesty is the key to success in business

How spiritual Laws affect your success in business and how to apply them for the mutual benefit of all

God is love - and love reigns all creation - love is the highest of all laws

Without the power of divine love you may always fail - even if you are a billionaire you may fail to be really happy

A simple and true law often disregarded, is the law and power of Love in our World. Have you ever tried to tell someone who is angry with you "I love you" from the depth of your heart and soul ? If yes - you certainly noticed its tremendous effect of restoring peace and harmony between you and the other party involved. Have you ever felt any kind of true Love toward your customers, suppliers, business partners or employees ? Honesty in business toward all members of your business, suppliers, employees, partners, customers is another way of saying "I love you", because it requires a true feeling of Love toward these people involved in your business. YOU depend on them, THEY depend on you. Mutual Love for each other in business can be an everlasting Bliss for your business, guaranteeing success and prosperity to all.

With the power of your love you will always succeed

The power of Love can obviously be used in business as well as in any other part of life. It is the basement of peaceful social interaction of mankind in any situation. If you do any kind of business, in the long term, you only may succeed, if you are honest with your advertisements, the quality of your products or services and if you have a honest interest to provide such services or products for the mutual benefit of all people involved in that business. If however your very own profit and success is the only subject you keep in mind, you may be successful for a short period of time, finding yourself again in a crash of business soon later. You never can succeed at the expenses of others.
On the long term, you can only prosper in your business and life, if all of your partners in business and life benefit and prosper as well. Whatever you sell, be it a service, information or a product, it must be for the real and true benefit of those purchasing it. And it must be honestly priced to allow all parties involved - your suppliers, employees, partners, as well as your final customers to conduct a life of well-being, comfort and prosperity.
If you buy cheap services from others and resell them for your highest possible profit, you may disregard the true human needs of your suppliers. They may not be able of providing this service or product over an extended period, because they can not earn as much as you and may experience discomfort, low earnings, low or no net-profits, low level standard of living. thus they work without loving their work without happiness derived from their work. Only employees or suppliers happy with their life, their net-income, their profits can provide a satisfactory service while feeling to be an equal partner in the chain of commerce. Enjoying your daily life including your work, is a prerequisite for happiness and joy in life. Whatever makes you happy is something that you like to repeat again and again. Whatever causes frustration is something you may like to get rid off as soon as possible. Whether it be in family life, recreation or in business life.

True love in business is the basis for honesty and thus for success in business

If you sell your services or products at a fair rate, leaving to all the members of your business the freedom of having an adequate margin of profit to allow an enjoyable way of living, they all will be a happy members of that business. everybody including your customers agree, that others may have the right of a happy and enjoyable living as well, so all of your customers may agree that you need a healthy margin to survive in business. But never survive at the expense of someone else. Your suppliers, your employees, partners and your customers have the same right to enjoy life and prosper in business. On the other turn, how many big companies going broke do cause other companies being in a business relationship with them to go broke as well. We all relate and depend on each others, in business as much in life If you take care of having happy and financially healthy suppliers and healthy customers, employees and business partners as well, then you never can go broke or be in trouble. they all are the guarantee and the strong and lasting basement of your own business. Their wealth will guarantee yours and your wealth should supply their wealth. We all are part of a chain. If any part of a chain brakes for whatever reason, the entire chain is broken and useless. Make sure that all members of your business-chain are strong, because the weakest one will cause the chain to rupture, no matter how strong the others are. The weakest one may decide whether all are prospering and surviving in business or all may go broke.
Some business may urgently need a service or product, because they are under pressure to make their customers happy on time or lose their customers. They may eventually pick your business to meet their requirements or save their business. But if your offer does not allow them to prosper, they may start looking and searching for another business partner from the very beginning, while doing business with you. They continue doing business until they either have gone broke or found a better partner. However, if from the beginning they feel that the relationship with your business is honest and leaves them enough business margin without hampering the welfare of their own customers or their own business, they may immediately decide to continue long term business with your company.
Same applies to employees . One person may accept to work in your business or supply you with products, even if your pay is too low. Just for the single reason that the person or their families are in financial trouble and try to survive. If you push their wages below the limit that would allow them to get out of their own crisis. they may search for another business partner or employer while still doing some business with you. Doing business with you just to barely survive against their bank loans and family needs or other sources of troubles in their life. And as soon as they have found another business opportunity, they may leave you, leaving a hole in your chain of business that may hurt you and bring your business in trouble. Leaving you with the problem of having to look for another employee or supplier or even forcing you to stop your business. Finding a right employee is as difficult as finding a right employer. But once you have found one. Show him by being honest, showing your awareness of his needs and your willingness and Love to meet his needs. Show him that you are equal partners. employee and employers are absolutely equal partners. Because an employee needs and employer to survive financially in this earthly life, as well as an employer can only survive by having employees working for him. ... Just imagine how many automobiles can be assembled and sold per year by a general manager of an automobile company himself. May be not even a single one. He could not even earn $ 1000 per year on his own. But while having many thousands of employees, he may make thousands of $ a months. the same applies for the employees. They decided to work in an dependent situation rather than taking the risk of becoming their own boss, investing their own money and taking full responsibility for all their actions. they should realize that they depend as much on their employers as their employers depend on them. Mutual Love and friendship should be the bases for a honest relationship in business between employers and employees. Both parties are of equal importance. So how to share the profits? Your loving heart will tell you.

Success and happiness of management depends on how happy employees are

Always keep in mind, that an employer never can be happier than their employees - and employees never can be happier than their employers. Both depend on each other. Both are nothing in business without the other part. As much as a business depends on their customers. However customers only depend on suppliers if they supply something that truly is needed in life. Find true needs of your environment and meet these needs in a honest way of doing business, rather than first producing products and then trying to create an need. True needs require no or little advertisement. Artificial needs require tremendous investment for advertisement and may find a strong competition.


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Here an example out of the recreational industry. People are looking for more recreational activities providing them with fun and enjoyment. Having fun is a basic human need. However nobody needs SCUBA Diving or Windsurfing or Golf. They may need any kind recreation or anything else that provides them with fun and enjoyment. Supplying such services or products is certainly important. But if you are are charging excessive fares they may change to a totally different activity, being lost forever for your industry. New Industries often charge excessive rates, because of low competition. Forgetting that instead of playing golf, people may go disco dancing, sailing or just anything else. There may be a natural demand for recreation in general, but never for a particular branch. Just any recreation that meets their need of supplying them with fun. Competition is very high in this industry, companies come and go in this branch and no company is sure to survive the next few years. Habits of the population is changing year by year or people may simply get embarrassed by the behavior of an industry.
Another example. People do need clothing, healthy food, shoes, repairs for certain articles, housing, to name but a few. These are true natural needs that every one has. Every one needs something to eat, day by day. everybody needs clothing and housing, every day. Supplying these needs is meeting a natural demand that may require much less investment and advertising than supplying a product or service that people may like without really needing them.

Spiritual laws are above human laws and apply always first and above all

Besides the laws created by humans on earth, there are Laws that govern the entire Creation of God. Laws behind the physical plane of manifestation. One important Law is called the Law of Karma. It is commonly known in many great Asian cultures since millenaries. It says in short: "What ever you do to others is coming back to you one day". This Law of Karma applies for all of your thoughts, emotions, fantasy, words and action. Honest business for the sole purpose of making your customers happy, of meeting true needs of your customers, will make you happy as well. But it also means whenever you are cheating your customers by the means of providing wrong information about the quality of products, by providing low quality services or products at excessive rates, or at the expense of the welfare or health of others, you may suffer the same destiny as you have caused to others. Whatever you do to others is coming back to you. Sooner or later it surely will. This is an absolute law of Creation.

 

 

Extrovert

Definition:

Most people believe that an extrovert is a person who is friendly and outgoing. While that may be true, that is not the true meaning of extroversion. Basically, an extrovert is a person who is energized by being around other people. This is the opposite of an introvert who is energized by being alone.

Extroverts tend to "fade" when alone and can easily become bored without other people around. When given the chance, an extrovert will talk with someone else rather than sit alone and think. In fact, extroverts tend to think as they speak, unlike introverts who are far more likely to think before they speak. Extroverts often think best when they are talking. Concepts just don't seem real to them unless they can talk about them; reflecting on them isn't enough.

Extroverts enjoy social situations and even seek them out since they enjoy being around people. Their ability to make small talk makes them appear to be more socially adept than introverts (although introverts may have little difficulty talking to people they don't know if they can talk about concepts or issues).

Extrovert behavior seems to be the standard in American society, which means that other behavior is judged against the ways an extrovert would behave. However, extroverted behavior is simply a manifestation of the way an extrovert interacts with the world. Extroverts are interested in and concerned with the external world.

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Introvert

Definition:  
Contrary to what most people think, an introvert is not simply a person who is shy. In fact, being shy has little to do with being an introvert! Shyness has an element of apprehension, nervousness and anxiety, and while an introvert may also be shy, introversion itself is not shyness. Basically, an introvert is a person who is energized by being alone and whose energy is drained by being around other people.

Introverts are more concerned with the inner world of the mind. They enjoy thinking, exploring their thoughts and feelings. They often avoid social situations because being around people drains their energy. This is true even if they have good social skills. After being with people for any length of time, such as at a party, they need time alone to "recharge."

When introverts want to be alone, it is not, by itself, a sign of depression. It means that they either need to regain their energy from being around people or that they simply want the time to be with their own thoughts. Being with people, even people they like and are comfortable with, can prevent them from their desire to be quietly introspective.

Being introspective, though, does not mean that an introvert never has conversations. However, those conversations are generally about ideas and concepts, not about what they consider the trivial matters of social small talk.

Introverts make up about 60% of the gifted population but only about 25-40% of the general population.



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What I Love About You

 
I love the way you look at me,
Your eyes so bright and blue.
I love the way you kiss me,
Your lips so soft and smooth.

I love the way you make me so happy,
And the ways you show you care.
I love the way you say, "I Love You,"
And the way you're always there.

I love the way you touch me,
Always sending chills down my spine.
I love that you are with me,
And glad that you are mine.

The Flirt

“Flirting with her gooey eyes,
Telling all her little white lies
Winking at him with eyes aglow,
Letting her impish smile show.
Falling for her ancient line
Golly, how can he be so blind

Running here and there she dashes,
Fluttering her mascaraed lashes.
Whispering in his sunburned ear,
Telling him she'd glad he's here.

Hanging around her they're like a blight
He's only the third one tonight.
Ringing of the telephone,
Getting her off her queenly throne

Skipping merrily up the stair
Hoping for another she could snare.
Knowing her I wouldn't give a dime
For that silly, two-timing sister of mine!”

Flirting Tips for Men

Know what you want and what is reasonable to expect

Some men flirt with women primarily to get sex. However, if you put aside that outcome and flirt just to be friendly you are opening yourself to different opportunities. You may well end up with a new lover but if that doesn’t work out you could meet someone who becomes a good friend and who knows who she might introduce you to. Keep your options open.

Make sure your hair is clean and your body and breath smell good.

You don’t have to douse yourself in after-shave, just take care of personal hygiene at the basic level. As like seeks like, dirty unwashed people will end up with dirty unwashed people! Fine if it suits you but if you are looking for something else……

Great States are catching

People love being around charismatic people because they seem to spread good feelings. Get yourself into the right state for flirting and go for it. The Flirting Weekend is designed to teach you how to feel good about yourself so that others will feel good about you.

When you buy a woman a drink, that is all you are buying

Don’t expect her to fall at your feet. Sometimes it is nice just to send someone a drink, watch when they receive it and smile, then look away – look back again later to show your interest. Don’t try to get a woman drunk – isn’t it preferable to have someone like you genuinely not because their senses are obliterated by alcohol.   And think twice if you think you HAVE to buy a drink to impress.  

Don’t do the rounds of a group of women

No woman wants to feel like second best. Refrain from approaching one after another in the same group. You look like a loser and the women may think you are desperate – any port in a storm Even if you are, don’t show it.

Concentrate on the conversation, not on getting a date.

Most women want to know what kind of person they are going out with. Make an effort to get to know her before diving in for a date

Give GENUINE compliments

There’s nothing worse than someone giving out a load of overblown lines. Everyone has something great about them, notice that and compliment them genuinely.

Keep your hands to yourself and respect their space

There are some people I call space invaders. Even when engaging in a casual chat they just seem to get too close. Some women have no objection to ‘touchy feely’ encounters, others are horrified by it. Respect the person until you have sussed out more about her. Touching can be a lovely flirty action, but should be confined to the arms or resting the hand just above the arms and NOT touching, until you know more. Test the personal space by moving closer, noticing the reactions then moving back a little to remove the threat

If you ask for a phone number, be sure you want to use it

Flirting and meeting people is NOT about trophy hunting it is about making new connections and having fun. If you don't intend to use the number, don't ask. There’s nothing worse than giving out a phone number and not having someone call. If you asked for it, use it .

Keep your self respect.   

Women always fall for men who are that little bit unreachable.   Don't hover or grovel or be desperate.   Think of yourself as special and know what you deserve.

And finally:

Be yourself. It’s no point in assuming a role you think someone wants you to play because you’ll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are and if you aren’t YET sure how you are at your best, you might want to do some work on it. There are plenty of courses and self-help books out there.

Flirting Tips for Women

Give clear signals

Men are notoriously bad at interpreting signals from women. Know what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear and that they convey what you mean. It’s not fair to flirt with someone for the fun of it – unless they are obviously flirty themselves. Flirting for fun is fine when you know someone a little better. If you genuinely want to meet people then by all means flirt, just make sure you know how to separate the sexual flirting signals from the 'hi, I'm friendly' flirting signals.

Great States are catching

People love being around charismatic people because they spread good feelings. Get yourself into the right state for flirting and go for it. Feel good about yourself and others will feel good about you.

Carry something to get you noticed  

If you want someone to approach you, be sure to wear or carry something that is eye-catching and noticeable to you. You will be surprised how much easier it is to go up to someone and ask a question about their prop.

Separate yourself from your friends

If you go out with a group of friends or even one girlfriend, make sure you separate from them so that you are more approachable. No man wants to be rejected in front of a group of women, and he may well feel he cannot approach you when you are ‘protected’ by a herd of other women!

Check your voice

Does your voice sound like a dental drill or do you wash people in waves of sensual sound?

If you are not interested, be polite when rejecting a man

‘Get lost nerd’ is NOT the way to say NO. Men who approach women may do so clumsily sometimes. If you are not interested, make it clear and be polite. It can be very difficult to get up the courage to approach a woman. Refuse someone in the way you would appreciate being turned down yourself. If you are sure someone is NOT for you you can say ‘I am sure you will find someone who is right for you, but I am sorry I don’t think it’s me. Remember that even if this person is not for you, they may have friend potential and who knows that benefits that can bring!! And now a short pause for a commercial break!

Be interesting by being interested

Cut down the talk about yourself and ask him open ended questions. Find out about him – after all people generally enjoy talking about themselves and feel flattered when someone shows an interest in them. This also gives him the cue that you like to know a bit about someone before exchanging numbers or accepting a date.

Ask him what he enjoys doing

Women and men often tend to fall back on the line ‘What do you do’? To some men, this can smack of ‘checking for wallet-padding’. Alternatively Not everyone is doing the work they love, YET and the question may put them on the spot. Men are much more activity orientated whereas women like to talk about emotions. Asking them what they enjoy doing in their life will allow find out more about what makes them tick.

If you give out your number, give the genuine one

Carry a personal or business card to hand out. This way you know that when you give out your phone number you either give out the genuine one or not at all. Imagine what it must feel like plucking up the courage to dial a woman’s number only to find it is the local Chinese take-away.

Make the first move!

95% of men I talked to said they would love to be approached by a woman. If women are looking for equality then it is only fair that they do their share of the asking. It will also give you an opportunity to understand what men have to go through when making a first approach.

And finally:

Be yourself.

It’s no point in assuming a role you think someone wants you to play because you’ll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are and if you aren’t YET sure how you are at your best, you might want to do some work on it. There are plenty of courses and self-help books out there.

Eight popular reasons for having intercourse... That no smart teenager would use.

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1. Your partner says that if you don’t it means, “you don’t love me.”	A person who loves you doesn’t push you into doing things you don’t feel right about doing. A person who loves you respects your beliefs.
2. All your friends do it.	Maybe all your friends just say they do it. Studies shows that by age 16, only 20 in 100 girls have had intercourse even once. By age 20, 66 in 100 girls have had intercourse. LOTS OF GIRLS DON’T HAVE INTERCOURSE.
3. It proves you’re grown up.	What proves you’ve grown up is deciding what you believe is right and sticking to your beliefs.
4. You’re just curious.	Curiosity is a pretty poor reason to pretend about another person just so you can try out intercourse.
5. You want to lose your virginity– just get it over with.	Think about what that attitude says about how much you respect your own body!
6. You want sound “ in the know” like everybody else.	Most people who sound “in the know” aren’t. Read Reason 2 again. It makes more sense to (1) tell the truth or (2) keep quite. (Most people think you know more than you know when you keep quiet.
7. You “owe it” to a date who buys you a nice dinner or takes you to a nice place.	Return the favor! Nest time, you pick up the check at one of those nice places.
8. You won’t get any dates if you don’t	You might not get any dates with people who only want to use your body, but who needs that?

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Infatuation or Love?

What is love, and what is infatuation? Do you think you know? Before you assume you're in love, you should be sure you know what it is!

It was the first day of classes my senior year in college. I walked into a computer class and looked around for a familiar face. As I quickly scanned the room, I noticed a couple of my friends, but I also noticed a beautiful brunette with deep dark eyes, and an empty seat next to her.
Our eyes met briefly, and I noticed a sweet smile come across her face. That was all the invitation I needed. Valerie and I started dating shortly after that first day of class together, and we were married almost one year later to the day. That was 16 years ago.
Was this love at first sight? Are we part of the lucky few who met their "soul mate"? Did we fall in love when our eyes met?
Wanting to love and be loved is very normal and healthy. Many of us grow up watching movies, listening to songs and reading books where the heroes "fall" in love and live happily ever after. This is what we desire in our own lives. Not only do the movies, songs and books deceive us into believing that we should fall in love, but our own brains can fool us as well.
When someone we think is attractive notices us, our brains release chemicals that make us feel good. Many confuse these feelings with love. But is this really love? Many people believe it is love, and they continue to fall in and out of love as these feelings come and go.
An article titled "Love Is the Drug" claims that passionate or romantic love is like a drug in the human brain. "That's exactly what a team of scientists is discovering as they watch new love literally blaze its trail across the living brain. Using real-time MRI brain images of people in the initial throes of passion, they're finding that love originates far from the brain's logic center" (HealthDay News, June 10, 2005).
"In fact, love may vie for the same real estate in the brain as drug addiction. 'There's this general craving-and-desire system that's engaged, only in this case the desire isn't for money or a drug or power or freedom. The desire is for merging with another person,' explained co-researcher Arthur Aron, a professor of psychology at the State University of New York at Stony Brook" (ibid.).

Dopamine + serotonin = infatuation

Scientists seemingly confuse these feelings with love. Could we do the same?
Other studies have shown that when we meet someone we find attractive, the human brain's neurotransmitters, dopamine and serotonin, kick in.
"In the right proportions, dopamine creates intense energy, exhilaration, focused attention and motivation to win rewards" ("Love: The Chemical Reaction," National Geographic, February 2006). At the same time we develop a serotonin imbalance similar to people who have obsessive-compulsive disorder. The article goes on to say, "Love and mental illness may be difficult to tell apart."
This is how strong the emotions and feelings can be! Emotional chemistry, passionate love, romantic love or love sickness are all terms people use to describe the new and exciting feelings of attraction. But one word can sum it up— infatuation. A huge aspect of having a successful loving and lasting relationship is recognizing what infatuation is and recognizing that true love is not infatuation.
According to WordNet online dictionary, infatuation is a "foolish and usually extravagant passion or love or admiration; temporary love of an adolescent" or "an object of extravagant short-lived passion."
Notice that lasting love is not part of the definition. The emotions change, the feelings are lost over time and those susceptible to infatuation "fall out of love" and begin the search for those feelings, which they think constitute love, all over again.

True love

I mentioned earlier the influence that movies, songs and books can have on our perception of love. At least one love song I know gets it right. On his album Nothin' but the Taillights, country artist Clint Black recorded a love song titled "Something That We Do." Here is one verse from this song:

I remember well the day we wed
I can see that picture in my head
Love isn't just those words we said
It's something that we do
There's no request too big or small
We give ourselves, we give our all
Love isn't someplace that we fall
It's something that we do

I like this song because his emphasis isn't on falling in love, but recognizing that love is much more than a feeling. Love may very well start with feelings, but it must become something we do, not just something we feel or something we get.
In Greek, the language of the New Testament, there are three words for "love." One is eros, which refers to a romantic or sexual love. Another is philia, which means brotherly love or friendship. And the third is agape, a broader word used to describe God's outflowing love.
A good marriage will have all three kinds of love. Romance and romantic feelings are good and should be a part of a healthy marriage. But a relationship should not be based just on romantic feelings. Friendship and companionship with good communication are also part of a healthy marriage.
But true love goes beyond friendship. True love will have and demonstrate outflowing, caring love. This is the type of love that God expresses toward mankind. It is the kind of love that is listed as part of the fruit of His Spirit in Galatians:5:22.
This kind of love takes time to develop. It goes beyond feelings and emotions. This true love or outgoing concern means being willing to set aside our own desires in order to provide for the needs of the other and to give of ourselves even when the dopamine and serotonin have settled down and we are back to reality.
Again, it takes time for real love to grow. It doesn't happen at first sight. It doesn't happen only if or when we find a soul mate, and it is not something we fall into.
Notice what the apostle Paul says about true love in 1 Corinthians:13:4-7: "Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
This is outgoing love. Notice that this love does not seek its own. This means not focusing on self nor on what you can get out of a relationship, but on what you have to give and contribute to a relationship.

How true love develops

This type of love is best developed by first establishing a lasting relationship with God, and then by striving to be more like Him. Once you have a relationship with God, ask Him to be involved in your love life. Ask God to help you develop godly love that you can share in the right way at the right time with another human being. Focus on what you have to offer to someone else, instead of what you can get from a relationship.
The feelings are the easy part. The feelings will come and the feelings will go. Will you recognize them for what they are? Will you mistake emotions and feelings for true love? If you do, when the feelings wear off you'll fall out of love and have to start looking to fall in love again.
Valerie and I had those feelings for each other over 16 years ago, but we did not allow them to dictate our actions. We got to know each other, and with God's help we developed love for one another. We still have those feelings. We still have love for one another, and we still have God involved in our relationship.
Emotional chemistry may be the start of a lasting relationship, but if it's lasting love you want, it's important to recognize what infatuation is and what love is. They are not the same, even if your brain tells you they are. VT

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How to Get Over Yourself and Finally Accomplish Your Goals

 

 

Most people set goals, be it personal or professional. These can be daily, weekly, monthly or yearly goals. Some people even have five and ten year plans. But how many actually meet their goals? And if not, why?

Sure, sometimes outside influences can be an issue, but usually it’s something the person has done personally. A lot of the time the biggest obstacle stopping you from accomplishing your goals is yourself. The follow tips can help you get over yourself and get your goals accomplished.


Dream, but Stay Focused
It’s great to have lofty dreams of what you want to accomplish, but if you want those dreams to turn into reality, you have to stay focused. And you have to work at it. Quite often you’ll have a goal in mind (owning my own house by the time I’m 25) but haven’t worked out the details on how to make that happen. Plan out what you need to do to make that happen and then do it!
Most goals worth having require hard work, sometimes years of it. Break it down into smaller steps, so that the task doesn’t seem too large. Taking a dream one step at a time will not only keep you on goal, but will help you to see just how doable it really is.


Practice
So, you want to be a world-renown architect and you seem to have a gift for it? Having talent in a chosen area and succeeding are two completely different things. Get over your desire for instant celebrity and practice. After all, practice does make perfect, but in this age of reality TV and instant stardom, that’s very easy to forget.


Tell Your Inner Critic to Shut Up
Ever heard of self-sabotage? Bet your inner critic has. Quite often as we’re working towards a goal, our inner critic says such wonderfully helpful things like “You can’t do this”, “You aren’t smart enough”, and “You’ll never reach your goal.” The key is to be aware of this negative self talk and tell it to shut up. There are lots of books that deal specifically with turning negative self talk into positive self talk.


Be Bold, Not Scared
Setting goals and meeting them can sometimes be pretty scary, especially if that goal means drastically changing your life and going against your nature. If your goal is to work in Paris but you are nervous about moving away from friends, family and everything you know, you could find the closer you get to that goal, the less you do to make it happen. When this happens you have two choices: change your goal or, take a deep breath and push through.
Another thing that helps is to continue to remind yourself why you want the goal and what the positive results of accomplishing that goal will be – sometimes it is easy to let the fear of something, such as social anxiety overwhelm the joy that the could come of making the goal and facing the fear itself.


Have any tips for our readers on how you got over yourself and were able to accomplish your goals?
About the Author: Vern is a freelance writer for Marriage Fitness. They offer free marriage counseling and marriage help on their website to any married couple.