Flirting Tips for Men

Know what you want and what is reasonable to expect

Some men flirt with women primarily to get sex. However, if you put aside that outcome and flirt just to be friendly you are opening yourself to different opportunities. You may well end up with a new lover but if that doesn’t work out you could meet someone who becomes a good friend and who knows who she might introduce you to. Keep your options open.

Make sure your hair is clean and your body and breath smell good.

You don’t have to douse yourself in after-shave, just take care of personal hygiene at the basic level. As like seeks like, dirty unwashed people will end up with dirty unwashed people! Fine if it suits you but if you are looking for something else……

Great States are catching

People love being around charismatic people because they seem to spread good feelings. Get yourself into the right state for flirting and go for it. The Flirting Weekend is designed to teach you how to feel good about yourself so that others will feel good about you.

When you buy a woman a drink, that is all you are buying

Don’t expect her to fall at your feet. Sometimes it is nice just to send someone a drink, watch when they receive it and smile, then look away – look back again later to show your interest. Don’t try to get a woman drunk – isn’t it preferable to have someone like you genuinely not because their senses are obliterated by alcohol.   And think twice if you think you HAVE to buy a drink to impress.  

Don’t do the rounds of a group of women

No woman wants to feel like second best. Refrain from approaching one after another in the same group. You look like a loser and the women may think you are desperate – any port in a storm Even if you are, don’t show it.

Concentrate on the conversation, not on getting a date.

Most women want to know what kind of person they are going out with. Make an effort to get to know her before diving in for a date

Give GENUINE compliments

There’s nothing worse than someone giving out a load of overblown lines. Everyone has something great about them, notice that and compliment them genuinely.

Keep your hands to yourself and respect their space

There are some people I call space invaders. Even when engaging in a casual chat they just seem to get too close. Some women have no objection to ‘touchy feely’ encounters, others are horrified by it. Respect the person until you have sussed out more about her. Touching can be a lovely flirty action, but should be confined to the arms or resting the hand just above the arms and NOT touching, until you know more. Test the personal space by moving closer, noticing the reactions then moving back a little to remove the threat

If you ask for a phone number, be sure you want to use it

Flirting and meeting people is NOT about trophy hunting it is about making new connections and having fun. If you don't intend to use the number, don't ask. There’s nothing worse than giving out a phone number and not having someone call. If you asked for it, use it .

Keep your self respect.   

Women always fall for men who are that little bit unreachable.   Don't hover or grovel or be desperate.   Think of yourself as special and know what you deserve.

And finally:

Be yourself. It’s no point in assuming a role you think someone wants you to play because you’ll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are and if you aren’t YET sure how you are at your best, you might want to do some work on it. There are plenty of courses and self-help books out there.

Flirting Tips for Women

Give clear signals

Men are notoriously bad at interpreting signals from women. Know what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear and that they convey what you mean. It’s not fair to flirt with someone for the fun of it – unless they are obviously flirty themselves. Flirting for fun is fine when you know someone a little better. If you genuinely want to meet people then by all means flirt, just make sure you know how to separate the sexual flirting signals from the 'hi, I'm friendly' flirting signals.

Great States are catching

People love being around charismatic people because they spread good feelings. Get yourself into the right state for flirting and go for it. Feel good about yourself and others will feel good about you.

Carry something to get you noticed  

If you want someone to approach you, be sure to wear or carry something that is eye-catching and noticeable to you. You will be surprised how much easier it is to go up to someone and ask a question about their prop.

Separate yourself from your friends

If you go out with a group of friends or even one girlfriend, make sure you separate from them so that you are more approachable. No man wants to be rejected in front of a group of women, and he may well feel he cannot approach you when you are ‘protected’ by a herd of other women!

Check your voice

Does your voice sound like a dental drill or do you wash people in waves of sensual sound?

If you are not interested, be polite when rejecting a man

‘Get lost nerd’ is NOT the way to say NO. Men who approach women may do so clumsily sometimes. If you are not interested, make it clear and be polite. It can be very difficult to get up the courage to approach a woman. Refuse someone in the way you would appreciate being turned down yourself. If you are sure someone is NOT for you you can say ‘I am sure you will find someone who is right for you, but I am sorry I don’t think it’s me. Remember that even if this person is not for you, they may have friend potential and who knows that benefits that can bring!! And now a short pause for a commercial break!

Be interesting by being interested

Cut down the talk about yourself and ask him open ended questions. Find out about him – after all people generally enjoy talking about themselves and feel flattered when someone shows an interest in them. This also gives him the cue that you like to know a bit about someone before exchanging numbers or accepting a date.

Ask him what he enjoys doing

Women and men often tend to fall back on the line ‘What do you do’? To some men, this can smack of ‘checking for wallet-padding’. Alternatively Not everyone is doing the work they love, YET and the question may put them on the spot. Men are much more activity orientated whereas women like to talk about emotions. Asking them what they enjoy doing in their life will allow find out more about what makes them tick.

If you give out your number, give the genuine one

Carry a personal or business card to hand out. This way you know that when you give out your phone number you either give out the genuine one or not at all. Imagine what it must feel like plucking up the courage to dial a woman’s number only to find it is the local Chinese take-away.

Make the first move!

95% of men I talked to said they would love to be approached by a woman. If women are looking for equality then it is only fair that they do their share of the asking. It will also give you an opportunity to understand what men have to go through when making a first approach.

And finally:

Be yourself.

It’s no point in assuming a role you think someone wants you to play because you’ll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are and if you aren’t YET sure how you are at your best, you might want to do some work on it. There are plenty of courses and self-help books out there.

Eight popular reasons for having intercourse... That no smart teenager would use.

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1. Your partner says that if you don’t it means, “you don’t love me.”	A person who loves you doesn’t push you into doing things you don’t feel right about doing. A person who loves you respects your beliefs.
2. All your friends do it.	Maybe all your friends just say they do it. Studies shows that by age 16, only 20 in 100 girls have had intercourse even once. By age 20, 66 in 100 girls have had intercourse. LOTS OF GIRLS DON’T HAVE INTERCOURSE.
3. It proves you’re grown up.	What proves you’ve grown up is deciding what you believe is right and sticking to your beliefs.
4. You’re just curious.	Curiosity is a pretty poor reason to pretend about another person just so you can try out intercourse.
5. You want to lose your virginity– just get it over with.	Think about what that attitude says about how much you respect your own body!
6. You want sound “ in the know” like everybody else.	Most people who sound “in the know” aren’t. Read Reason 2 again. It makes more sense to (1) tell the truth or (2) keep quite. (Most people think you know more than you know when you keep quiet.
7. You “owe it” to a date who buys you a nice dinner or takes you to a nice place.	Return the favor! Nest time, you pick up the check at one of those nice places.
8. You won’t get any dates if you don’t	You might not get any dates with people who only want to use your body, but who needs that?

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Infatuation or Love?

What is love, and what is infatuation? Do you think you know? Before you assume you're in love, you should be sure you know what it is!

It was the first day of classes my senior year in college. I walked into a computer class and looked around for a familiar face. As I quickly scanned the room, I noticed a couple of my friends, but I also noticed a beautiful brunette with deep dark eyes, and an empty seat next to her.
Our eyes met briefly, and I noticed a sweet smile come across her face. That was all the invitation I needed. Valerie and I started dating shortly after that first day of class together, and we were married almost one year later to the day. That was 16 years ago.
Was this love at first sight? Are we part of the lucky few who met their "soul mate"? Did we fall in love when our eyes met?
Wanting to love and be loved is very normal and healthy. Many of us grow up watching movies, listening to songs and reading books where the heroes "fall" in love and live happily ever after. This is what we desire in our own lives. Not only do the movies, songs and books deceive us into believing that we should fall in love, but our own brains can fool us as well.
When someone we think is attractive notices us, our brains release chemicals that make us feel good. Many confuse these feelings with love. But is this really love? Many people believe it is love, and they continue to fall in and out of love as these feelings come and go.
An article titled "Love Is the Drug" claims that passionate or romantic love is like a drug in the human brain. "That's exactly what a team of scientists is discovering as they watch new love literally blaze its trail across the living brain. Using real-time MRI brain images of people in the initial throes of passion, they're finding that love originates far from the brain's logic center" (HealthDay News, June 10, 2005).
"In fact, love may vie for the same real estate in the brain as drug addiction. 'There's this general craving-and-desire system that's engaged, only in this case the desire isn't for money or a drug or power or freedom. The desire is for merging with another person,' explained co-researcher Arthur Aron, a professor of psychology at the State University of New York at Stony Brook" (ibid.).

Dopamine + serotonin = infatuation

Scientists seemingly confuse these feelings with love. Could we do the same?
Other studies have shown that when we meet someone we find attractive, the human brain's neurotransmitters, dopamine and serotonin, kick in.
"In the right proportions, dopamine creates intense energy, exhilaration, focused attention and motivation to win rewards" ("Love: The Chemical Reaction," National Geographic, February 2006). At the same time we develop a serotonin imbalance similar to people who have obsessive-compulsive disorder. The article goes on to say, "Love and mental illness may be difficult to tell apart."
This is how strong the emotions and feelings can be! Emotional chemistry, passionate love, romantic love or love sickness are all terms people use to describe the new and exciting feelings of attraction. But one word can sum it up— infatuation. A huge aspect of having a successful loving and lasting relationship is recognizing what infatuation is and recognizing that true love is not infatuation.
According to WordNet online dictionary, infatuation is a "foolish and usually extravagant passion or love or admiration; temporary love of an adolescent" or "an object of extravagant short-lived passion."
Notice that lasting love is not part of the definition. The emotions change, the feelings are lost over time and those susceptible to infatuation "fall out of love" and begin the search for those feelings, which they think constitute love, all over again.

True love

I mentioned earlier the influence that movies, songs and books can have on our perception of love. At least one love song I know gets it right. On his album Nothin' but the Taillights, country artist Clint Black recorded a love song titled "Something That We Do." Here is one verse from this song:

I remember well the day we wed
I can see that picture in my head
Love isn't just those words we said
It's something that we do
There's no request too big or small
We give ourselves, we give our all
Love isn't someplace that we fall
It's something that we do

I like this song because his emphasis isn't on falling in love, but recognizing that love is much more than a feeling. Love may very well start with feelings, but it must become something we do, not just something we feel or something we get.
In Greek, the language of the New Testament, there are three words for "love." One is eros, which refers to a romantic or sexual love. Another is philia, which means brotherly love or friendship. And the third is agape, a broader word used to describe God's outflowing love.
A good marriage will have all three kinds of love. Romance and romantic feelings are good and should be a part of a healthy marriage. But a relationship should not be based just on romantic feelings. Friendship and companionship with good communication are also part of a healthy marriage.
But true love goes beyond friendship. True love will have and demonstrate outflowing, caring love. This is the type of love that God expresses toward mankind. It is the kind of love that is listed as part of the fruit of His Spirit in Galatians:5:22.
This kind of love takes time to develop. It goes beyond feelings and emotions. This true love or outgoing concern means being willing to set aside our own desires in order to provide for the needs of the other and to give of ourselves even when the dopamine and serotonin have settled down and we are back to reality.
Again, it takes time for real love to grow. It doesn't happen at first sight. It doesn't happen only if or when we find a soul mate, and it is not something we fall into.
Notice what the apostle Paul says about true love in 1 Corinthians:13:4-7: "Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
This is outgoing love. Notice that this love does not seek its own. This means not focusing on self nor on what you can get out of a relationship, but on what you have to give and contribute to a relationship.

How true love develops

This type of love is best developed by first establishing a lasting relationship with God, and then by striving to be more like Him. Once you have a relationship with God, ask Him to be involved in your love life. Ask God to help you develop godly love that you can share in the right way at the right time with another human being. Focus on what you have to offer to someone else, instead of what you can get from a relationship.
The feelings are the easy part. The feelings will come and the feelings will go. Will you recognize them for what they are? Will you mistake emotions and feelings for true love? If you do, when the feelings wear off you'll fall out of love and have to start looking to fall in love again.
Valerie and I had those feelings for each other over 16 years ago, but we did not allow them to dictate our actions. We got to know each other, and with God's help we developed love for one another. We still have those feelings. We still have love for one another, and we still have God involved in our relationship.
Emotional chemistry may be the start of a lasting relationship, but if it's lasting love you want, it's important to recognize what infatuation is and what love is. They are not the same, even if your brain tells you they are. VT

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How to Get Over Yourself and Finally Accomplish Your Goals

 

 

Most people set goals, be it personal or professional. These can be daily, weekly, monthly or yearly goals. Some people even have five and ten year plans. But how many actually meet their goals? And if not, why?

Sure, sometimes outside influences can be an issue, but usually it’s something the person has done personally. A lot of the time the biggest obstacle stopping you from accomplishing your goals is yourself. The follow tips can help you get over yourself and get your goals accomplished.


Dream, but Stay Focused
It’s great to have lofty dreams of what you want to accomplish, but if you want those dreams to turn into reality, you have to stay focused. And you have to work at it. Quite often you’ll have a goal in mind (owning my own house by the time I’m 25) but haven’t worked out the details on how to make that happen. Plan out what you need to do to make that happen and then do it!
Most goals worth having require hard work, sometimes years of it. Break it down into smaller steps, so that the task doesn’t seem too large. Taking a dream one step at a time will not only keep you on goal, but will help you to see just how doable it really is.


Practice
So, you want to be a world-renown architect and you seem to have a gift for it? Having talent in a chosen area and succeeding are two completely different things. Get over your desire for instant celebrity and practice. After all, practice does make perfect, but in this age of reality TV and instant stardom, that’s very easy to forget.


Tell Your Inner Critic to Shut Up
Ever heard of self-sabotage? Bet your inner critic has. Quite often as we’re working towards a goal, our inner critic says such wonderfully helpful things like “You can’t do this”, “You aren’t smart enough”, and “You’ll never reach your goal.” The key is to be aware of this negative self talk and tell it to shut up. There are lots of books that deal specifically with turning negative self talk into positive self talk.


Be Bold, Not Scared
Setting goals and meeting them can sometimes be pretty scary, especially if that goal means drastically changing your life and going against your nature. If your goal is to work in Paris but you are nervous about moving away from friends, family and everything you know, you could find the closer you get to that goal, the less you do to make it happen. When this happens you have two choices: change your goal or, take a deep breath and push through.
Another thing that helps is to continue to remind yourself why you want the goal and what the positive results of accomplishing that goal will be – sometimes it is easy to let the fear of something, such as social anxiety overwhelm the joy that the could come of making the goal and facing the fear itself.


Have any tips for our readers on how you got over yourself and were able to accomplish your goals?
About the Author: Vern is a freelance writer for Marriage Fitness. They offer free marriage counseling and marriage help on their website to any married couple.

Wise Words From Fellow Introverts

While I get to slap my name and mugshot on this blog, it's you readers who really make it hum. I do read everyone's comments and find all sorts of wonderful wisdom and wit in them. So today, I thought I'd pass along a small number of useful excerpts (edited for space) from some of the hundreds of comments you have posted here.Thank you, everyone, for your contributions. I consider them a most generous gift.

On being you
There is no point in trying to spend your life making, or trying to keep, other people happy because you will usually fail anyway. Decide what makes you happy and then do it. People who class themselves as "friends" but expect you to be miserable for their benefit we can all live without.--Mike Craggs

...explain your introversion and your need for solitude, rather than coming up with various excuses. America is an extroverted society, and it is likely that introverts suffer at least some discrimination as a result... it really isn't effective to address discrimination by making excuses; you need to tell people what it is you expect from them, even if they don't agree with you.--Alan
My son is the child of 2 introverts, and he realized his own introversion early. In preschool, his teacher reported her concern to me that he was not interacting with other children...and she was concerned he might be feeling alone and isolated. When I asked him about it, he said, " no Mama, I Love being alone!"--Anonymous


On friends
For many years book clubs or readers groups at a local book store/library have been the key for the introverted ladies of my family to make new friends. They usually have very small memberships, don't last too long and, well, offer an opportunity to break away into rows of browse-able bookshelves before and after--Merritt
While I have to agree with some of the comments about not desiring large numbers of friends or actively seeking new friends I do have to say that it is important to always keep the door open for new, potential friends that may unexpectedly walk into your life.--Anonymous
HOW TO EDIT MY FACEBOOK "FRIENDS" LIST
Have I had any substantive communication with this person in the past 6 months? If yes, keep. If no, ask:
Am I interested in hearing about what is going on currently in this person's life? If yes, keep. If no, ask:
Do I believe this person can add to my life in a positive way now or in the future? If yes, keep. If no, ask:
Is this person a member of my family? If yes, keep. If no, DELETE!--amplifier76


On Parties
...find a comfortable spot and settle in. the kitchen is my favorite: almost everybody will find their way in at some point...also, after a few minutes i know where things are and i can be helpful to drink/glass/ice seekers, which allows me to be part of things without feeling overwhelmed.--anonymous
At my last high school reunion, I appointed myself the unofficial photographer and had a blast.-anonymous
...just wandering, if it's a large party, is a good way to sort of remove myself. I'm still around people but I'm not forced to try to engage in any conversation unless I want to.--tracy
...I find the hostess, usually a good friend if I've been invited, and ask what I can do to help. Somehow, keeping my hands moving ...for at least the first hour or so lets me ease into the scene. It also allows for mingling without getting "stuck" ("have to replenish the tray, be right back" but then move on) and it helps my hostess.--Martie


On introvert fun
...I love rock climbing. It's just you and your thoughts. Plus, the higher up you get, the less tempted your belayer is to talk to you :) --Anne
Long drives down the interstates are good too, even here in the boring Midwest. As long as the traffic isn't too heavy, it's easy driving and you can relax a bit and enjoy the scenery.--Alan
I love love love getting those little red envelopes in the mail from Netflix and watching like 4 hours of a favorite tv show ... or all 6 hours of pride and predjudice in a row without any interruptions. --JackieM
When I was a child I spent many wonderful hours, alone in my bedroom, building model cars and trucks. Now I love spending many solitary hours tinkering in the garage.--Anonymous
I like spending hours cooking something creative--Christy
...being nocturnal...lot of people seem to assume when you say you like to stay up late that you like to go out partying late, but not me!... I'll come home 'early' claiming that I'm tired, only to feel completely rejuvenated after some time at home, and then I stay up till 6am in my dim comfortable quiet setting.--Aelthwyn


On the telephone
.the answer to "Whatcha doing" is "I'm talking to you!"--Tiphane
My mantra is: Just because the phone rings does not mean it has to be answered.--Jen
People are either amused or amazed that I will not answer my phone mid-conversation. I was always taught to not interrupt others, and so I apply the same rule to my phone..--Jonathan
Most of my friends lovingly tease me about hating the phone so much and texting has become our primary tool for communication. Because of this I know that if one of my close friends is calling it's because it's actually important ... Also, my mother is an introvert as well and detests the phone but... we have an agreement to talk on the phone about once a week. There is inevitably a point at which all the catching up has happened...[we] will literally say to one another "I'm done being on the phone now so I'm going to go, but we'll check in again next week?" It is such a relief to be able to be this honest...I've begun to try this line with other people in my life and surprisingly, it's going over well. --HeatherT


On chitchat
...the person I am talking to is really the deciding factor in whether I will take part or not. If I'm talking to someone that I know somewhat and am interested in getting to know better than I will chit chat, no problem. Now, this does not mean that it isn't still exhausting and hard but if I see a possible benefit from doing it then why not?--Jennifer
If I'm drunk I can small talk, when sober it takes a great effort. The reason is that at some point when I'm small talking, I'll analyze the conversation and think "This is stupid, what the heck am I talking about? It's clearly unimportant." I then get self-conscious... so I clam up. When I'm drunk I assume the part of my brain that does the analyzing gets knocked offline first. When I'm sober I have to constantly tell myself that "It's not the content. It's the action.--Splint Chesthair


On love with an extrovert
...one thing I absolutely cannot stand is when he walks into a room where I am, with either the radio or the television on, and ... says, "What's this about?" I want to retort, "Just listen and you'll find out!". Fortunately most of the time I don't. But sometimes I do say, "Mmmm, don't know, I was lost in my thoughts." So he has to wait and listen if he wants to find out.--Toni McLean
Vacations are us-only. We can have a few long weekends a year where we visit and/or travel with friends, but the *real* vacations must be friend-free. We can have weekend guests once a month. (This is too much for me, but it's a compromise.)--Nina
When I am upset about something, he wants me to just say whatever I feel - just lay it out there. He doesn't understand that I need to process how I feel first and then put that into words. From his perspective, he thinks that I am shutting down and not willing to work on the issue. Over time, we've been able to adjust to each others styles. He gives me alone time to work the issue out first, and I try to verbalize what I'm thinking as much as possible--Anon


On chatterboxes
My coping mechanism for those who tell me their most intimate problems & secrets (it ranges from close friends to complete strangers) is that I view it as my service to humanity....I get to chalk up some good karma.--Jonathan
My best deterrent against particularly bothersome and insistent chatterboxes is to shovel their own medicine down their gullet. Rattle on with them like you're filibustering the Senate....--Emily

Six Sensual Tips For Sensational Sex

Humans and dolphins are the only species that have sex for pleasure.
And dolphins look pretty happy don’t they?
Well why shouldn’t we have as good a time as they do?
Sex is natural, fun, good for you and damn enjoyable.
You feel wonderful, close and intimate with someone you love, and full of passion and belonging. Not to mention hot and steamy!!
So, with the weekend coming, here are some sexy tips to put a huge smile on your face and a happy lover in your bed.

1. Turn on Turn up

Sex has that extra spark when you are in the mood. The temperature under the covers sky rocketing when you are turned on and all hot and bothered. That ardour just has to transfer into your love making and become a memorable night of passion.
So before your love fest begin turning on before you turn up. Be like the athelte prepared for a marathon. Talk to your partner and tell them how much you want them. Tell them the things you would love to do to them in bed. Say how much you love their body and how great it is to be next to them naked and close. And even remind them of the first times you slept together or of that famous amorous weekend in the country when you were at it like rabbits.
Get inside their head before you get in bed

2. Fresh Fun

There is nothing more enticing than the smell of freshly bathed skin. Soft, smooth flesh pressed next to yours smelling divine and feeling like silk. The sweet bouquet of the essences they bathed in waft into your senses. You just have to touch. To caress. Gently massage their body whilst you lose yourself in the subtle fragrances and their nudity. And, of course, your skin is the same for your lover as their senses are flooded by your scent. You begin to become entwined. You lose yourself in each other in every sense. What better?
The essence of true sex begins in a freshly washed body 

3. Explore More….And More

The temptation of sex is to get to the good bits. The genitals or fun parts that react and respond. That tend to represent sex. But there’s more….so much more. Sure, a kiss or stimulation of certain zones will get an instant response. Yet there is a whole body to explore away from the normal erogenous zones. Places that are as beautiful and have a far deeper orgasmic thrill for your partner.
Be an adventurer and explore these uncharted areas. The WHOLE body is one erogenous zone. From tip to toe there are tingles everywhere. Find those tingles. Listen for the moans, the love talk as you do. The feet, the back so long and slender, the ears an orgasmic touchpaper, the back of the neck and behind the knees. There is new indirect sexual territory for you to discover and uncover. The anticipation and exhilaration you create as you search and blend all over will add deeper levels to your sex.
Map out a course to wonderful intercourse by exploring more

4. Take Your Time

Sex gets our juices going and some times we just can’t help ourself as we plunge into each other’s bodies. Fast, quick, enthusiatic sex that releases the tensions of life and our rampant desire. Fun but over too quick. And there’s no depth of connection. No true intimacy.
Sensational sex takes time through taking time. Why rush when you can spend longer in paradise? An hour or two of gentle foreplay, caressing and embracing, exploring each other and building up to slow, affectionate mating takes sex to a new level. Taking time to enjoy, share and come together bed wise makes couples close and sexual relations a real pleasure.
Take time to love each other

5. Sweet Nothings

We all love words of love. Trouble is they are normally used out of bed. To get someone into bed. Obviously they are powerful and persuasive. So use them during sex to ramp up your love making. Whisper sweet nothings during those sexy sweet moments.
During your passionate encounters gently tell your partner how gorgeous they are. Softly whisper how much you love them and enjoy making love to them. Say how you are feeling from being turned on to really wanting them….again and again. Even ask them where they love to be kissed, or fondled or how they want their sex and in what way. Talking in their ear is talking to their whole body and speaks erotically to their sexual self. They will respond.
Communicate your love when making love

6. Variety The Spice

Variety is the spice of life and certainly the spice of sex. Missionary is mundane if that’s all you do. You have bodies, so use them. Be inventive. Try various positions and techniques as you may discover something seductive. Spice it up by dressing up or using food or the odd toy.
Sex becomes boring when its repetitive. Change it by altering the schedule. Steer away from the normal Friday night romp to making time for a midweek love-in or a Sunday morning frolic. Get someone to look after the kids one evening and get down to it. Have the odd weekend away. Just don’t get stuck in a rut when you can get stuck into each other.
Variety is the spice that is sex.


Sex isn’t a chore but a phoaaar! It’s what we are built for and genetically meant to do. So have fun with it, it’s natural. And make that fun sensational by trying these sexy six. Let yourself go. Feel fabulous. Love your love making and it will love you. Not to mention your partner too!!
Let me know how your weekend went? Or drop me a comment and tell me what sensual tips you have that make sex an unforgettable mutual experience? Sex is the best!

Best Sympathy Verses

Although no words can really help
To ease the loss you bear
Just know that you are very close
In every thought and prayer.

*****

An angel opened up the book of life,
to record the baby’s birth,
and whispered as she closed the book
“Too beautiful for earth”.

*****

“Do not stand by my grave and weep
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the soft refreshing rain.
When you awake in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight
I am the stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there, I did not die.”

*****

Into each life some rain must fall but sunshine does appear.
It brings with it a rainbow and a message that is clear.
Please know that you are not alone that we all hold you dear
Let faith & hope into your heart and keep your memories near.

*****

Don’t think of her as gone away-
Her journey has just begun
Life holds many facets
The Earth is only one
Just think of her as resting
From the sorrows and the tears
In a place of warmth and comfort
Where there are no days and years
Think how she must be wishing
That we could know today
How nothing but our sadness can really pass away
And think of her as living
In the hearts of those she touched
For nothing loved is ever lost-
And she was loved so much.
~ Ellen Brenneman

Sympathy Cards Verses

Looking for Sympathy Cards Verses? Check below – Here we have a collection of Sympathy Verses for cards.

Although no words can really helpto ease the loss you bear,just know that you are very closein every thought and prayer.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Expressing sympathy is never easy All we can say is how sorry we are.

May happy memories of your loved one help bring you through this sad time.

Hoping your treasured memories bring you comfort day by day.

May you find comfort in knowing that your loved one touched the lives of so many others and gave them the gift of many happy memories.

As time gently eases your grief, may beautiful memories restore the joy that has been taken from your heart.

Each time we embrace a memory, we meet again with those we love for the heart never forgets.

God gave us memories that we might have roses in December.

Every exit is an entry somewhere.

I wish I knew what to say to make things better but sometimes words just aren’t enough.

Sympathy Verses

Perhaps they are not stars in the sky,
But rather openings where our loved ones
Shine down to let us know they are happy.

*****

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal,
Love leaves a memory no one can steal.

*****

It’s hard to know what to say,
except that you are thought of
In friendship and in sympathy.

*****

Life brings tears,
smiles and memories.
The tears dry,
the smile fades,
but the memories live on forever.

*****

May it comforts you to know that,
Your loved one is safe in God’s care now.
And that friends are praying for you in your time of sorrow.

*****

May words of comfort rest gently upon your heart,
and in time may they become words of healing.

*****

No matter how old we are,
Losing a mother is one of the deepest sorrows a heart can know,
But her goodness, her caring and her wisdom live on,
Like a legacy of love that will always be with you.

*****

No time on earth is long enough to share with
Those we love or to prepare our hearts for good-bye.

*****

Our sympathy and warmest thoughts are with you now.

*****

Sending a gentle hug your way,
To comfort you,
And to let you know
that you’re on my mind and in my heart today and always.

*****

Gone from our sight,
but never our memories.
Gone from our touch,
but never our hearts.

*****

Sympathy Sayings

A saying is a phrase, often used for expressing the feelings in a metaphorical way. When ever we use any saying we are giving a piece of counsel and knowledge on the way things happen. Here is the list of some quotations on sympathy or Sympathy Sayings by popular authors to help you express your feelings.

A brother’s sufferings claim a brother’s pity.
- Joseph Addison

A grave is braced not just by a tombstone but by angels as well.
- Adabella Radici

A marriage or a refusal or a proposal thrills through a whole household of women, and sets their hysterical sympathies at work.
- William Makepeace Thackeray

Ah! thank heaven, travelers find Samaritans as well as Levites on life’s hard way.
- William Makepeace Thackeray

All sympathy not consistent with acknowledged virtue is but disguised selfishness.
- Samuel Taylor Coleridge

He watched and wept, he prayed and felt for all.
- Oliver Goldsmith

He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man.
- Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Love and death are the two great hinges on which all human sympathies turn.
- Benjamin Robert Haydon

Man is one; and he hath one great heart. It is thus we feel, with a gigantic throb athwart the sea, each other’s rights and wrongs; thus are we men.
- Philip James Bailey

One of the greatest of all mental pleasures is to have our thoughts often divined: ever entered into with sympathy.
- Letitia Elizabeth Landon

Our own cast-off sorrows are not sufficient to constitute sympathy for others.
- Madame Suzanne Curchod Necker

Sympathy has to be the first and foremost thing in one’s life, sympathy and the feeling of oneness. There cannot be anything greater than the feeling of oneness.
- Sri Chinmoy

Sympathy is the golden key that unlocks the hearts of others.
- Samuel Smiles

The craving for sympathy is the common boundary-line between joy and sorrow.
- A.W. Hare and J.C. Hare

The secrets of life are not shown except to sympathy and likeness.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

The sympathy of sorrow is stronger than the sympathy of prosperity.
- Benjamin Disraeli

True sympathy is beyond what can be seen and touched and reasoned upon.
- Mrs. Campbell Praed

When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.
- Kahlil Gibran

Sample Letter of Sympathy

Sample Letter of Sympathy

This is a sample letter of sympathy or a condolence message for your convenience. This letter is a universal letter, which can be written to anyone, we hope that this letter is useful to you.

Dear___________,

I am very sorry to hear about the sudden demise of your beloved/respected___________. I am really shocked with the untimely death of such a cheerful and blithesome person. I sincerely feel most deeply for you in this sad hour of bereavement. The loss is too severe to be expressed in words, but being human we have to accept God’s will.

I wish god give you strength and courage to accept this reality. Please remember me if I could do anything for you, don’t hesitate to tell if you need any help from my side. I am always willing to stand by you. Do call me anytime to lighten your sorrow.

Please convey my condolences to other members of your family.

Yours sincerely.

In the Fashion

by A. A. Milne

A lion has a tail and a very fine tail
And so has an elephant and so has a whale,
And so has a crocodile, and so has a quail-
They've all got tails but me.

If I had sixpence I would buy one;
I'd say to the shopman, 'Let me try one';
I'd say to the elephant, 'This is my one.'
They'd all come round to see.

Then I'd say to the lion, 'Why, you've got a tail!
And so has the elephant, and so has the whale!
And, look! There's a crocodile! He's got a tail!
You've all got tails like me!'

FASHION IS...

FASHION IS...

Fashion is—what fashion was,
It’s just that it’s “in fashion”.
And passion is—what passion was,
And that too is “in fashion”.
Designers choose the state of art,
Which only makes me wary.
‘Cause if Calvin Klein is in a bad mood,
What you look like might be scary.
I’ve dealt with schmattas for many years,
And I’ve seen both good and bad.
But seeing a septuagenarian in a mini-skirt,
That really makes me sad.
I say fashion is what you choose,
To wear, to move with ease.
Lots of black, with a splash of color,
And an extra layer, please.
Ignore what they say in WWD,
Who crowned John Fairchild, the queen bee.
Just look in the mirror before you leave the house,
A navy blue skirt, and a crisp white blouse.
Accessories, accessories are always a must,
No sweater too tight to show off the bust.
In regards to leather, keep it simple and black,
If you buy it in brown, you’ll only take it back.
Stripes and solids are always good,
Stay away from lilac, buy something with a hood.
Evening wear is always black with pearls,
And as for your hair, extended curls.
But darling don’t go by what I just said,
If you wear anything else, you’ll wish you were dead.

Written by Abe Gurko, circa 1986